Sweet Memory Flashback

During our Christmas vacation with my Xavi last December, our last pit stop was on this beautiful, exotic and secluded island of Apo. Situated off the southeast coast of Negros island. This not-so-disturbed island has much to offer not just because of the peaceful surrounding but with its simplicity that you can feel you are in a blue lagoon movie. Even if you cant find the sugar-like sands in here but you can appreciate more the relieving pebbles in your feet and be amazed with the natural rock-formations that sprung out from the sea.

It is not just what you see from the outside you can get from this island. This has a secret that you have to immersed. With its richness you'll wander it is very easy to be in another world. I'm talking about the World of the Greek god of the sea, Poseidon or Neptune in Roman mythology. What your eyes see from the exterior in the transparent water is a normal rock-algae form living under the water. But if you take a dive, you'll be shocked on how more beautiful the inside than the outside. This rock-algae formations turned out to be the beautiful corals that is the habitat of different species of Poseidon's citizens. The fish living in harmony with other sea creatures in their natural environment. The colors in the Poseidon's world varies and is very rich. Really a nice feeling to experience.
The experience was very rewarding for we set off from the neighboring island of Siquijor on the morning of the 24th, the day before Christmas. We haven't booked any hotels in the island and without first-hand information gathered but armed only with a brochure from the tourism authority about Negros Oriental that we got from the Mactan Airport during our arrival from the island of Camiguin. When we arrived at noon in the port of Dumaguete City, we walked through the Boulevard passing through Siliman University. We took our lunch in a Mexican restaurant where we ask the waitress how to get to Apo island. The waitress advised us to consult a travel agency but most were close because it is a holiday. We walked around the city and asking people information and looking for an agency to book us transport and accommodation to the island. We found an agency but they can do anything for us because it has to be an early booking three days before the travel. We have no choice but to go there at our own risk. So we got some money to in a ATM machine for our expenses then headed off to the jeepney stop form Dumaguete to the market place in Malatapay where the wharf is located. From the wharf you'll take a 30 minute boat ride going to the island. When we arrive im the island we were amazed on its simplicity.

We directly went to the exclusive resort in hopes that they have available rooms. There are no reception area so we were entertained in the bar of the restaurant. Luckily they have so we were happy to have a place to stay for Christmas Midnight. The experience was like the Christmas story. The we enjoyed the beautiful sunset that day and have our Christmas dinner with fresh fish, beef and chicken paired with a bottle of white whine. We spent two days in the island but never regret to came there because the experience was worth it. Xavier and me love the island and hope that we could visit there again for more days.

See ya in the future island Apo. Wait for us!:-)

A Nice TALK

feeling good about ourselves,

bringing back good memories,

adding more spice to the relationship,

creating more sensible conversation,

giving intimate moments,

feeling more close to each other,

longing to meet again,

killng the distance,

sharing and understanding,

feeling the happiness of love.

THANK YOU.
X y M
forever!

Where is Queen Raquela?

The Amazing Truth of Queen Raquela the movie that traces its origins in Cebu. But what is really the true contents of this movie that we are dying to see for. Curiosity really kills. After garnering the best feature film of the recently concluded Teddy Awards in the Berlin Film Festival. The award giving body for LGBT-related films.

As it bested other entries from different countries in the world, it would be nice that we can have the opportunity to view this internationally considered movie about a "ladyboy" prostitute here in our country. this would a great way to show if the truth in the Raquela movies the true to the reality of Philippine society especially to the reality of ts/tg in the country.

What was shown in the trailer, the film was creatively furnished with scenes of ts/tg and her continuing relationship within the restrictive society she is living. The reality of poverty, discrimination and partiarchal domination in the Philippines.

The movies was about Raquela who dreams of escaping the streets of Cebu City and live a fantasy to have queenly life in Paris. She turned to prostitution to achieve her dreams. Believing that men from first world (his prince charming) can give her the life she imagined. Her prostitution brought her from the street to the very private the more profitable business of Internet porn. She succeeded to be a famous a porn star that paved way to having more online friends, including Michael, his boss in the porn site and Valerie, a ladyboy from Iceland.

Eventually Valerie helps Raquela to fly out to Iceland. There, she experienced the hardness and taste the milk and honey she longed for. Michael, then offers her a rendezvous in Paris. then the rest was.........watching the whole movie when it arrives in theater near you!!!!

I just hope that movie will be shown in the Philippines soon!!!

Time and ME

They say "time is gold", thus it has worth. I don't depend my behavior towards time with this phrase but it is just innate in my personality to virtue this abstract idea. Eventhough we don't see, hear, touch, smell and taste time, it is the state where you can do and make your actions out of your best.

By pledging acquaintance lets the person to give his available time to someone. Giving us the "terms of engagement".With that, it is expected to comply to that pledge. In the business world, it is ideal to be "on time" because time could either means gain or loss. So all of the so called professionals are expected to conform to their signed pledge with their companies. Circumstances such as not keeping that will faced sanctions of termination of a business position. Thus, professionals are following such expectations in order not to face further sufferance.

But how about normal people? Pledges is normal to human activity. This is manifested though meeting people whether they are closed to you or not. Dates also have pledges. Giving each other time to be versed. Even pledges are normal, it has been normal too not conforming to it. So we have the tendency to break that engagement in pledges that it is more than normal that we became used to it.

With time as part of the pledge of acquaintance, tardiness is an element to broke the terms of engagement. By giving time when to meet someone can let you give the procurable time one has. It is understandable that people can be late normally. But the bad part of the engagement is waiting. The waiting agony can make someone feel bad just because of waiting or expecting that the time given to her was the person's( to meet) attainable time. But it is always a case to case bases and every situations are different.

Personally my behavior towards time changed when I first met the situation during a work engagement. I was late that time and the one who brought me for that make up job was angry because i have to consider that when u have engagement u have offered your time to that. And if you cant comply then consequences happens. In that situation, consequences such as not finishing on time is inevitable and if that happen immediate sanctions such as not paying for the service, payment deduction and bad reputation to customers. That experience changed my approach with time. Although this experience is more of business, I think that it also must be applied by normal people who pledge for engagements. If someone knew that he cant conform to that engagement or can be tardy then he "must" give the right attainable time he can.

Clarifying on situations of dates in relationships, It is not about you don't understand not allowing a late partner to be happy. Of course, if he was happy that time then his partner would be happy for him too. thats the goal in the relationship making each other happy. The thing with situations such as this would come of the thought that he must be aware also that he gave his so called "attainable time" to another person or to a partner perhaps. Enduring to that normality is not universal and depends on the person's personality towards time in particular.

We can understand by being tardy made that person happy, but allowing to be late as always on the said available can be infuriating to the person who considers time valuable. You can understand the person if he can give u time or not, but just not let others expect and wait. There are two outcome for this, either the one can change time habits or the other one will change for the other. Resolutions for this case would be the person who somehow was offended of action will assure that he will not do it again even if you know he can do it because its normal. Being sorry is enough but it will be better to recommend resolutions.

I think it is about time management and be attentive to his confirmed engagements would be the great way to avoid breaking the terms of engagement. So I rest my case.

1960's

To clarify the inquiries and thought on why did I cut my hair, this article will tell u the reasons and will close intrigues about it.

First of all, I always had a bad hair day. I was not gifted with a nice silky straight hair. The time my hair was long i felt insecure about it for it really looks dull and dead to the eyes of other tg/ts. Well its not all disadvantage i got out from my hair. Compare to others, my hair has a great volume and wavy. No difficulty in setting any hair style I liked. If i wanted a straight hair then i ironed it, or curl it with curling apparatuses.

Well, living in a Filipino cultural views of beauty, you cant escape the fact that you will not feel insecure about how you look among fellowmen especially tg/ts own concept of beauty. I imagined to be beautiful and have my hair straighted with the fad of "hair rebonding". I tuned out disastrous because my hair was falling from the breakages due to the "mal-process" of the straightening method ( Bad iron was used so more force was inflicted to my hair). At first, it looked nice but as time goes by, my hair turned to be disaster. So i cut my hair in different styles like having bangs, layered, colored and curling it with perm. I felt sorry for my hair because of that!

Last April 11, I decide to end all of the suffering from society's reaction ti my hair's condition. Ive talked with Samantha abut how i really like hair during the 1960's. Trying to have the hair style and beauty of classic actresses in the likes of Audrey Hepburn, Brigitte Bardot, Marilyn Monroe, Jacky Onassis just to name the few. Seeing the performance of AI contestant David Archuleta of the Beatles hit "Long and Winding Road". I was inspired to do the haircut and think of where to have it cut. So i thought that an older stylist can do that and immediately went to Wendy Mendoza hoping she can do it.

When we arrived there, the parlor was closed and we were advised to come back tomorrow. Then, we came back the next day and have my hair cut. The stylist was hesitant to cut it for it is an asset to have a long hair. I just let her be on what past style she will give to my hair. But it turned out that my dead hair was more obvious. There, I decided that she will cut it again and so what happen happened.

I got this new past look!!!!! Its very refreshing because, summer season with its humidity, the cut will give me breath of fresh air to my "cuerpo". Well, as a fresh graduate, maybe it will give more advantage to get hired to my chosen classified job i will apply....So far they liked my hair and told me i look young with it

Isn't that nice? I got mah new look with a plus! That is comfortability, youthfulness and more!!!!

Transexual Vendetta Book 2. 0: other side of the coin

Upon the request of Ts DA to let me know her part, so we chatted in a conference with Raquela, Ceyj, and Ts DA. She started talking about how the Foreign Guy came to the Philippines last January. She said that FG(uy) had first met with Cj and confirmed that the really had a relationship because the guy admitted it to Ts DA before he left for Dubai.

The relationship between FG and Cj, being short-lived, from being introduced to Cj's friends in a party, the femme helped the guy by advising him about his annulment from his ex-wife, till referring him to a lawyer. Then they became close and the rest was theirs to tell. Then, the man told Cj that he had to go to Manila for a business encounter, but was believed that he did not got there, for the reason, accdg. Ts DA, he did the alibi because she want to be distant with Cj for unknown reasons and shifting it attention to Raquela.

Ts DA continued, Raquela as the next obvious target for relationship with FG. But Raquela ignored the guy and introduced Ts DY and Ts F in a beach resort in Mactan. That time the two Ts are in the race to get the man's attention and so Ts DY had been chosen. Right then and there, their relationship started.

She said, she was acquainted with the man out from nowhere and boredom. That time she was in Janeia'a house and saw Raquela there and asked her where she headed to. She replied that she will be meeting Mr. FG in Crown Regency and so she asked Raquela if she can go with her because she at bore that time. They went off to the guy and when they arrived at the place, the man hope on the vehicle and went to a restaurant for a talk while waiting for Ts DY to come.

While in the car, Raquela introduced her to the guy. Then the guy asked whose car she was driving and she answered it her and it was given by her two boyfriends. So he was kinda shocked hearing the answer like a prima donna. After they stopped at Kul's Restaurant in IT park for dinner. While waiting for Ts DY and Ts F, she said, they talked "just" all about Dubai and nothing else. When Ts DY arrived, she said, she distant herself, as a sign of respect, from the lovers because she thought they had a relationship that time and that she's not aware that Ts DY and Ts F was on competition of FG at that moment.

She was just informed about that matter, after their meeting with FG's recent visit. The guy told her that he didn't liked the competition between two persons for him because Ts DY always asked him about who ranks first over the others and the guy he dislike such behavior. He was silent about that because he doesn't want Ts DY to get hurt.

According to Raquela, FG was a man of substance, prefers a good conversation, and is not a flirt.
So,one day the guy messaged her in Friendster and told her that the guy didn't felt that Ts DY was the right one he is looking for to give him the love and care from a partner. And also, she quoted the man's word, that Ts DY was a self-centered person and only FG can explain for inquiries why he told such things.

The time FG arrived last Thursday of the 8th of April, she never knew that he came that day and she was aware of it when Carlota told her on the night after the arrival. Even she knew FG will arrived in April and she asked for Domln's opinion about FG's calls to her because she was confused on the situation and she doesn't have any plans to be linked with the both. But Domln's attention was not of that, but of matters concerning personal attacks from his group through a survey that why FG's concerns was not tackled between her and Domln.

Never appeared since Thursday, she explained that, on that very Sunday she received three missed calls from the man and a message telling her that he wanted Ts DA to call him when she can. She furthered, that she was in Simala that day so that's why she haven't answered the man's calls and eventually meeting him 8 pm on that very Sunday.

They were together from that Sunday at 8pm till 1 am, Monday at 4pm to 11pm, then on that Tuesday from 2 pm, met their accident at 11:45 until they were hospitalized. While in the hospital, she sent messages to all her friends about her condition and inviting Domln and Xrab in the hospital. There, the night after that, the two visited Ts DA and was shocked seeing FG with a arm fracture in the hospital, just silent to Ts DY as of that time, while they were going to hear explanations from FG and Ts DA.

According to Ts DA, while they talked in the hospital, Domln had slipped her tongue about Han Dynasty, this man is another ts lover to whom both ts are planned to meet, and FG already knew about this person arrival and the planned meeting of Ts DY and other ts's ,because of unknown ts who told him about the hidden agenda, whom FG didnt refused to name. FG assured anyone that it was not Ts DA who told him about that but another ts from Friendster while Ts DA affirmed that she did not tell the guy because he was part of the meeting with that man. So the guy came back to to Ts DY to untie the knot of their relationship.

So all was silent to Ts DY about what happened, till she was shocked to see his man in a broken-arm and FG alibied to her that he had met an accident while seeing her son. As Ts DY mentioned, that the time he told her the reason the guy cant look straight to her eye. So the guy visited Ts DA in the hospital reasoning to Ts DY that he will visit his son cos its his last night in the country. Ts DY went to a comedy bar to take off the worry and sent the guy a message to come to her after his visit to his son while that incident happened in the hospital with Domln and Xrab. She suspicious at first but didn't mind it until rumors arrived at her door step.

Ts DY in fury, knowing that the guy had been dishonest and infidel with her, she commanded the man to come back in the house and explained the truth to her. There, a great fight happened between the two because of mixed emotions they felt towards each other. There, according to FG to Ts DA, the friends of Ts DY brainwashed FG throwing away bad languages against TS DA. so the man left the house telling everybody that he doesn't want to hear from them again and that they were all liar. Ts DA also mentioned that Ts DY messaged her asking why did she met FG last Sunday and didn't gave any respect even if she knew that he has a relationship with her. So she replied that ask the man this questions so that she will know the answers why the man met with her instead of TS DY.

Hearing this words coming from FG, Ts DA said that what they said bad about her was thrown back with them because, according to FG, he didn't like the fact of digging Ts DA's past and telling bad words about her. So in her Ts DA side, all the "brainwashing" was in favor of her. That Wednesday's morning, the man visited her again because of his cam and that afternoon he expressed his feelings towards Ts DA. She answered back she lost mostly everything she had her car, mobile and specially her friends but the man replied if she will refuse his feelings then all will be bad for her because she lost many thing but if she accept it then all will be well.

But because all of the bad gossips flying around, She got bad reputations due to misunderstanding of the situation. She said that Raquela can attest to that the guy is a nice gentleman, just accompany each other, no holding hands, no kiss, or even sex happened. And she continued that, she never brainwashed FG's mind because she seldom talk about Ts DY when she is with him and talk more about her ex-wife, hi child and their annulment.

The problem was with Xarb's interpretaions who poisoned the story and worsen the situation by bring her interpretations to Ts DY without even asking the real story from FG. She even intentionally did her part letting Domln and Xarb to meet FG in the hospital for them to question personally interrogate him about the matter due to the great tension that time. She said that most report are always added and deducted.But because of Xarb's bias, she accused me that i had sex with FG and his already her bf that they haven't kissed each other from Sunday but only on Wednesday when they became sentimental.

She wanted to emphasize that it was a good karma because angels were still there protecting her and that she got only bruises to the fact she can be dead in the accident and "that GOD wants me to discover what purpose i have on this earth..."

The hate continues till the other part articulates.... Hoping that the two faction will have full reconciliation....

April 23, Another day of LOVE

Today, the world is celebrating another day of love. Several nations ,of which Saint George is the patron saint, such as Spain (Catalonia), England, Portugal, Georgia, Serbia, Bulgaria, Bosnia and Herzegovina, and the Republic of Macedonia celebrates the Diada de Sant Jordi/ St. George's Day.

This a tradition where in Catalonia, Spain which has a similarity with Valentines Day. The tradition every April 23 is the exchange of gifts between sweethearts, loved ones and respected ones. In the past men gave their girlfriends and wives roses and women gave their boyfriends and husbands a book to celebrate the occasion.

In current times, this mutual exchange of books is customary. Roses have been associated with this day since medieval times, but the giving of books is a more recent tradition. Thus, is a day also known in Catalonia as el dia de la rosa (The Day of the Rose) or el dia del llibre (The Day of the Book) that inspired UNESCO to declare April 23 as the International Day of the Book.

So, I just want to say "Te amo y te echos de menos muchos" to my love and special one. If i was there then I can celebrate that tradition with you!I'm sorry didn't buy a book for me to give.:-). I love u so. mwah!

Even I dont know how it feel like to celebrate this day but still i celebrate it because of love.Hope I can celebrate it in real in the future. So people let us celebrate this day of love and greet our loved ones to let them feel how we love them. Tell them now!!!!!:)

Cant get enough about.........Einstein's infamous formula

As Mariah Carey's new album recently came out.... and so i cant get enough about her 14 beautifully crafted records......hahaha. Wow!!! Its is like an atomic bomb explosion. She is really a versatile artist because every album she had got different beats. Yeah you can criticize her all you want but even you do that you cant stop her make own music that all other her fans, tor and I. hahaha..... So those who want to listen to her new album, just buy a copy to records stores near you!!!!

Mariah forever. Love yah.....

Ms. Gay (TS/TG) Mandaue!

Pageants have been a part of the lives for tg/ts. For some it is their way to feel and show people their beautiful, some want to be famous, some want to earn income and support their lives on it and some tg/ts just want to have fun. The time pageant for women was born was also the time it gave birth to ts/tg pageants. International beauty pageants such as Miss Universe, Miss World, Miss International and Miss Earth pageants as the framework of for the celebration of ts/tg's joyful femininity.

Now thats joyous celebration has been tested if it managed to overcome the perils of time. Before i was exposed to ts/tg pageants, i had never known what it was like. Till I experience it later in my first year college by joining the pageant organized by the LGBT organization at school. Since then I always join pageant till I've been competing in big tg pageants in Cebu with other veteran, beautiful and feminine tgs/tss.

Cebu province's prestigious tg/ts pageant is held ever after the city Fiesta celebration of Mandaue. It has a long history dating back in 198o's and had been the most expected event every year. Contestants coming from different parts of the country are free to join the pageant. Choosing the contestant are in the hand of jurors decision by the criteria of beauty, intelligence, and confidence.

Most winner of this pageant have been famous among tg/ts/tv/g community in Cebu. But then since last year after Mr. Doy Arradaza passed away. The credibility of the prestige in the pageant was in question. Maybe this is due to the accommodation and prices for the pageant candidates.

It is understandable that last years pageant was a turning point for the pageant to continue rather than put in grave. Due to most church criticism and sanctions such as not holding fiesta mass if tg/ts/g pageants is part of a fiesta program in the parochial community. Funding also was the problem for the last year pageant because of the scandal the mayor had gone through. But still it was realized and pushed through to held the pageant.

Today, interest for tg/ts pageants among transgender is also put to question. Ho much interest does the new generation have for tg/ts pageants? Will the prestige of the tg/ts/g Mandaue pageant continues or depreciates? When will be this pageant turn to be an institution to give permanence to the event? Does it need more organizational structure to be an institution? Will that be the time that this marginalized part of Cebuano society to form an organization for its welfare? When will the tg/ts/g form a group for the welfare of its kind?

The answer is in each one of us. (especially with the G&T community of Cebu)

Pls comment on what you think about the questions....

Transexual Vendetta

Vendetta or feuds tend to begin because one party (correctly or incorrectly) perceives itself to have been attacked, insulted or wronged by another (Wikipedia). In the events of the presence of such conflict, one must note that the truth is absent or is hiding to reconcile issues of conflict. If we think that there is no honesty, the personal trust is shaken. Resolutions for such matters will not come about if both parties cant confront and extract the truth from its hiding place and resolve the hate towards each other.

Last week, a newly evoked vendetta happened in Cebu. This is a conflict between two transexuals for a foreign man they had acquainted from Friendster. This foreign guy came to the Cebu last January and met few tg/ts to choose for a partner. Ts DA and Ts DY had met him. The former, as what other ts friend said, repudiate the man's offer for relationship because shes not available. The latter was introduced my a friend Raquela Rios to the man, that time they were two ts competing. In the end, Ts DY was chosen and they compromise for a relationship.

After his trip in the Philippines, the guy was having a good relationship with Ts DY, they had a good communication and exchange reciprocity between them. Mr. Foreigner promise to come for a week in late March to celebrate his birthday with her. Due to working schedules, the guy canceled his flight and managed to rebook for a flight schedule after two weeks. With that bad news, Ts DY was depressed because he cant spend her time to celebrate her "love's" bday but was relieve because they still have good communication. The guy also promises to give her a laptop pc, a camera, perfume and makeup so Ts DY was happy to know it. Then, the waiting is over and they eventually met. They have spent 2 days roaming around the city and a day away from the city to the tranquil place in a beach south of Cebu. After they arrive back in the city. The man said he will meet his child, a son from her ex-wife in Cebu. So the man went to his wife and met his child in a mall. That time, Ts DY went also to the same mall touring her close relatives and for her to give them a treat. Exchange of messages happened between the two in the mall. Giving pain to the femme. Messages connoting that the man don't want her to come near him.

She understood what the man so she didn't mind it. Then one day the man ask permission to Ts DY to meet his son again. So she let him. Bored being alone she went out and head to the mall and hoping that she can see her man happy seeing his child. But then she saw the ex-wife and son with the nanny with no presence of the father. So she was worried that time. She waited all night for the man and called him many times in his mobile and she didn't got an answer. Sleepless waiting, she endured waiting for the man till the man came back the next morning with a broke his bone and his arm in now in a cast. He explained that he had been in an accident and didn't told her the truth about what really happen.

That time the man was gone, he went to met Ts DA. They had in contact since he was still in Dubai. So they met and the rest was history (undocumented story from Ts DA) till they had an accident in the mountains. After that incident, they were admitted to the hospital. There Xrab, Domln and Sind, who met the foreign guy on the first night, was shocked seeing the guy in the hospital and explained the situation while Ts DY was waiting for the man in their flat till he came back.

News came from some friends that Ts DA had an accident which is very reluctant to believe at first because TS are fond of making puns and jokes to each other about tragic things. Then friends of Ts DA sent messages to other friends and confirmed she was in the hospital because her car got hit in the mountains with the "afam" ( foreign guy) until Ts DA sent everyone some text messages about her condition.

Xrab, a friend of both parties, interrogated the foreign guy and Ts DA on what happened and their acquaintance even the foreign guy had a relationship with Ts DY. So what they had talked in the hospital didn't came to Ts DY's knowledge till the midnight of the guy. With full anger she sent a message to the guy and told him to come back immediately in the their house. In that day the guy with fracture asked again Ts DY to let him go to see his son (accdg. to Ts DY she went to Ts DA). So arriving in their house Ts Dy had a mixed feeling about what happen knowing that his man met another ts. She wants to kill him but it didn't happen. So they had a great fight!blah blah blah!

Even to that time, Ts DA still sent sms to the foreign man telling him to come to the hospital because she was in pain. Ts DY knew about it and the man ask Ts DY to let her answer the sms. In order for the guy to reply to Ts DA, Ts Dy permitted if he will kiss her (cos she was dying to kiss him os he miss him so). After that they talk about their future and the man said he cant decide at that time because he said he was "brainwash" and he can answer about him and Ts Dy's future when he arrive back in Dubai! After this, they have a personal compromise and parted with Ts DY's tears and lean on his shoulders for comfort (definitely in pain she said her dreams was shattered).

Weekend after the departure of the man. Both ts met in a pageant audition for ts in Cebu P. There Ts DY pulls Ts DA's hair before the start of the activity. The confrontation of of both parties was not of talk but because of the anger the other felt so it was never possible to resolve their problems. Ts DY humiliated and disturbed Ts DA's presentation and everyone from the audience were curious of what was happening there. So the judge asked Ts DA in her interview that was her accident was of good karma and she answered back with "YES" and explained about it.

Now, statements arise via internet bulletins criticizing those who she thought that turned back on her!!!!!

This ts situation that happened recently had been a mind-buggling for me. With questions such as, Why are men who seeks ts for relationship cannot stick to one ts. Why had a relationship to a ts thats is somehow had a close relationship to his ts-gf? Why tell lies and cannot tell the truth in front of her gf's place?

I think that this situation can change the ideas of ts on their relationship with men. This can build more untrusting in the part of the ts to their bf. This will reflect into ts's attitude in not giving their whole feelings to man. With the rampant experiences of pain and suffering of ts from their Filipino bfs and its society in general, it will add up to their thinking that Filipinos and foreigners are alike by inflicting pain to them and definitely lead them not to be serious to the partners they met.

For a relationship there must be loyalty to strengthen trust. Shattered trust is difficult to put together. Until the truth comes out from its hiding place, it will either solve the problem or its continuation. But at the end, the damage has been done.

So men don't play with us so we will not play with you!

Both parties are free to write they're statements in the comments section of the blog and explain their side of the story. But still confronting face to face will be a good way to resolve their issues......

El primera dia de la semana

In time with the creation of planet transgender, it will be nice to tell you about what this blog all is about. I created this blog because i want to write the events that happened everyday in my life, my thoughts about all things i encounter.With that i can show to you what my world as a transgender and to know more about the life we have!

Yo abro mi semana a estudair en espanol!Why?(por que?) Porque me gusta aprender la lengua. yo quiero voy a espana para vivir alli. Por eso se' tener oportunidad para mi futuro. Y tambe', tener una vida con amormio.

Hahaha!hope you understand that.(Espero vos entender ese.) Anyways, the importance of Spanish for the newly graduates (like me) and to all of us, is that for your information having knowledge of another or more language aside from one's mother tongue gives the advantage to be hired for most international companies worldwide especially in Europe. Filipinos, who were colonized by Spain for 300 more years, had been exposed to the culture and especially the language of the Spaniards. With the presence of Spanish words in our vocabularies, it is very easy to "entender"(understand) the Spanish language.

This is why I pursued to learn more about the language and develop my speaking, writing, and understanding of Spanish. In Europe, you are not allowed work and study if you cant talk in the EU countries respective languages. As Spanish is what I'm taking now, it is not just Spain as my main destination, but the whole Spanish- speaking countries in the world in Americas, Africa and Asia (Philippines). I don't want to be static on the language I used and don't have to be dependent on English, we will be behind if we do so. If what we do is to have a good job then we have to improve our language skills.

If u are interested to work abroad, we have to be more competent enough in par with other international workers. Let us not stick on service-oriented jobs because what most of us took in the universities are of in-demand courses about giving services in health, tourism, hospitality and etc. Even though school standards here cant compare from schools abroad but we, as professionals, are intelligent enough to do the jobs we have and give our best for it.

Let us enhance more of our working skills and knowledge just by learning other languages. Its not just about u do it because you want to have a job but your learning of such language is of your interests. So, for those who want to study another language, grab the opportunity and make the most of it. As diversity is innate in all of us, then we have to take consideration the diversity of others outside our territorial vicinity:-). It can be the way of the more influx of ideas from the rest of the world and normalizing the prepositions such as "inter" and "trans" because of that exchange.

The Creation

On the first day of creation, the universe was dark and formless. Then a supreme being came out from that darkness and commanded, " let there be light" and there was light. As light appeared the world was formed. And the supreme being named it "Planet Transgender". A world that is undescribable, limitless, and unimaginable. Let us see and know more about this newly created world......hahah. Well what an introduction. I considered myself as the creator of the this so call "planet" because what i want to write in this blog is all about transgender/ts/transvestite. I myself as a transgender would like to express what is our true nature, our thoughts and ideas, and what we do in our everyday lives. i also would like to tackle in here "trans" issues from the daily problems tg/ts/tv faced. So if anyone will be offended of what i will write, what you can do is leave me comments so we can exchange ideas about it. All the materials I will write here is personal opinion the things i do and encounter and put in mind that it will never my intention to hurt others. ok! so let the TRANSGENDER LIFE begins!